The evolution of the human mind and life shocks from my point of view , what next

The stage of salvation

the end of the shocks of adolescence and the beginning of the formation of the youth stage. You must make sure at that time that there are no more shocks in your life and that you have begun to deal with your new life as it is, its sweetness and its bitterness. 

Everything you have learned from the past has been learned.

A significant part of young people goes through difficulties in their lives because they have not completely rid themselves of the problems of adolescence.

I do not want to say a healthy form because in the end, they are pressures that must be eliminated, no matter how difficult, and they will certainly leave a mark on your life, 

but the most important thing is to get rid of them.

Get rid of the parents' restrictions and rely on yourself, get rid of the pressures of time and attention, and realize that you are not the center of the universe. Dealing with childhood problems and facing the fact that your childhood was not entirely rosy.

Ghosts

Be careful; these shocks or problems that you face or have faced, or that your son is facing, are not easy things.

If they are not dealt with properly, they will become ghosts that haunt you throughout your life or, at least, in your youth.

You will fight these ghosts in every relationship and in every situation, and the period of adolescence will not end from my point of view until you get rid of these ghosts.

Black spot

Must be taken into consideration that there are neighbors in the same country, city, or on another continent whose lives are ghosts, they did not have the opportunity for a quiet childhood or a healthy adolescence, and therefore, their youth is at the mercy of the wind.

You must know that passing through these shocks is a blessing and that iron must pass through fire to become harder.

Parents, friends, and society are not to blame for these problems; it is your responsibility, and you alone must get rid of them.