The evolution of the human mind and life shocks from my point of view , teenage

The most important thing I want to talk about is the shock

Mental shock

The shock of the boy when he realizes that there are no superheroes and no one as rich as Bruce Wayne (Batman) or as powerful as Clark (Superman), and if he likes a girl and finds it difficult to talk to her because of his social status, there's no spider to bite him and change him like Peter Parker (Spider-Man). The girl also realizes that there are no longer any princesses, and there's no prince on a horse to save her from her problems, and that Cinderella and Snow White are just myths, and life has more suffering than fairy tales.

The shock of time

He has to deal with his problems in reality, and the shock is also that there is no time like there was in the previous stage. 

For example, childhood in school is about five or six years in primary school, but then it's three years in middle school and three years in high school, so there's no long school stage.

 After the preparatory stage, he starts to make decisive decisions in education, whether to continue with science or literature, to study sports or history, biology or geography.

Shock of materialism

The shock when he realizes the value of money; he no longer finds everything he asks for as he used to. I mean, in the past, he didn't even ask, meaning that parents used to buy clothes before school or Christmas , for summer and winter , and they might be his older brother's clothes or someone older in the family.

 Also, school schedules, expenses, books, and school supplies were requested by the teacher or the school, and they provided them. 

But now, you as an adult need to know what you need and ask for, and your request may also be rejected. And not all clothes will be dresses or bright colors like before; now, you've grown up, and you have to be careful about your clothes and yourself.

Physical change shock

Alongside the shock of change between childhood and adolescence, meaning he starts to ask himself when his appearance changed like this, when he became tall, and when he started to have hair on his face, and so on. And whether he, his parents, or even his relatives and friends start to compare between the child and the adolescent in front of them, all these shocks are related to the physiological changes that occurred in his body. The same goes for girls who feel these changes more difficultly than boys, such as weight gain; they must accept it, and menstruation; they must deal with it.

Attention shock

You are no longer the center of attention, my friend; you are no longer the spoiled child you used to be. There is another child in the family, or there are other things that deserve more attention than your bumping into the edge of a chair in the house's hallway From my point of view, the impact of lack of attention may be more dangerous than we think, as the consequences of lack of attention on the part of the family may lead to very bad consequences for adolescents.